Survivorship bias means this

Survivorship bias means this: People systematically overes timate their chances of success. Guard against it by frequently visiting the graves of once-promising projects, investments, and careers. It is a sad walk but one that should clear your mind.

— from The Instruments (Awareness/Perception/Expectations)

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