On January 13, 2016, Mike stood up in a…

On January 13, 2016, Mike stood up in a room full of loved ones and watched himself dying in their eyes. I discovered his brave act in the many published articles and tributes his journalist friends wrote to document the event.

— from The Landing (Death) · Ritual Effect: From Habit to Ritual, Harness the Surprising Power of Everyday Actions by M

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Our rituals around the landing can look almost theatrical from the outside, but they do a serious and necessary work — they honor the one who has gone, they carry the grievers through, and they weave a finished life into the ongoing story of the family. I have seen people meet the end with astonishing grace: one man, dying, stood in a room full of the people who loved him and watched himself reflected in their eyes; another asked every mourner at his funeral to wear a Hawaiian shirt and a pair of Groucho glasses, so that grief and laughter would arrive in the same breath. And beneath all of it runs the oldest accounting there is — that in the end every hidden thing we have done, whether good or bad, is finally brought into the light. — The Landing (Death)

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