what shall I do with my --'s death?
Page 365 keyword death what shall I do with my --'s death? Hold your other loved ones and heal their pain. It is necessary to be strong in the face of death, because death is intrinsic to life. It is for this reason that you should aim to be the person at your father's funeral that everyone, and their grief and misery can rely on.
— from The Landing (Death) · 12 Rules for Life, An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan Peterson
In the book
And what do the dying actually do with the gauge once they can read it? They hold the people they love and try to heal their pain; they understand that one must be strong in the face of death precisely because death is woven into the fabric of life. A man named David, I am told, would have given anything near the end to be stuck in one more ordinary traffic jam, one more slow line at the supermarket, one more maddening minute on hold — the very things the rest of us curse. — The Landing (Death)