don't let differences come between you or drive you…
don't let differences come between you or drive you apart or make you move sight of your common bond. I beg of you You should remember us and forgive him pardon each other, ask forgiveness give forgiveness and don't hold the grudge.
— from Legacy / The Logbook (Legacy/Epilogue)
In the book
Hold the family together — remember Aesop's bundle of sticks, which cannot be broken together but snaps one at a time. Don't let differences drive you apart; ask for forgiveness, give it freely, and refuse to hold a grudge. Build a culture of family empathy rather than family blame — most people spend years and fortunes studying the psychological damage their family did them without ever asking the more useful question of why it happened. […] Aim at a good name, not a big name. The metric is the people you touched, not the dollars you stacked. Hold the family together. A bundle of sticks; give and ask forgiveness; build empathy, not blame. Refuse entitlement. Use no blessing at another's expense, and never feel you are owed. […] Don't let anything come between you. Ask each other for forgiveness, and give it. The aircraft is home now, and the cabin has gone quiet. — Legacy / The Logbook (Legacy/Epilogue)