takeaways number one friendship isn't based on luck
Page 91 takeaways number one friendship isn't based on luck. Embrace unapologetic initiating by putting yourself in settings that allow for continuous unplanned interaction and shared vulnerability to develop friendships number two try not to ignore friendships and favor of romance. Having friends will make your romantic relationship better. Number three assume people like you. When you are fearful of approaching someone, new, remind yourself of the liking gap, your liking you're likely underestimating how much you will be like number four when you think an interaction isn't going well, ask yourself if it is your thoughts that have given you that sense or if it's the other person's behaviors. What behaviors Has the person demonstrated that have indicated that they disapprove of you? If you cannot pinpoint any particular behaviors, then, remind yourself to assume they like you number five overcome covert and over avoidance. Once you're in the door don't hide in the corner. Initiate and follow up with those whom you feel chemistry, those who live close to you, and those whom you already come into contact with from day-to-day number six join something that occurs to harness mirror exposure. Sign up for a class instead of the workshop. some options include improv classes, writing classes, work affinity groups, a book club, hiking group, volunteering, etc.
— from Friends, Community & Society (Relationships/Community/Society)