There are to be four speakers the first is…
Page 96. There are to be four speakers the first is from your family the second is one of your friends the third is from your work profession and the fourth is from your church this is your funeral what would these people say.
— from The Landing (Death) · 7 habits highly effective families Stephen covey
In the book
Picture your own funeral. Picture four people rising to speak — one from your family, one friend, one from your life's work, one from your community — and ask, soberly, what you would want each of them to be able to say about how you flew. Sit in that room before you furnish your life, and you will furnish it differently. — The Landing (Death)