there is a minimum of three ways
Page 76 there is a minimum of three ways. We can look at our experience. In the most recent work by John grinder and Judith Delozier, they are called first, second, and third perceptual positions. Firstly, you can look at the world completely from your own point of view, your own reality within yourself, in a completely associated way and not take anyone else's point of view into account. This is called first position.
— from The Instruments (Awareness/Perception/Expectations) · NLP by O'Connor and Seymour