to know if you're connected to the true self…
Page 179 keyword self to know if you're connected to the true self, check your vitality, you're just for life, and they full open heart. These are all indicators that this connection is being built. The vitality that comes to us as we move into generativity changes our images of ourselves - - we find that our self-esteem flourishes has never before. Taking responsibility for our lives and everything we do brings a sense of empowerment. As we engage in the engineering process of shaping ourselves, the inevitable task of letting go of what no longer serves well must take place. It's letting go can be likened to a death dash dash death to old and worn out strategies. This process of letting go and experiencing a death is similar to entering into a time of chaos. Chaos is critical. In chaos, you can no longer go back to what was, because there has been a death to the former order, or do you know where you are going because then you life possibilities are still hidden. It is the dark time, the time of the void. Niche said one must have chaos and one to give birth to a dancing star. And chaos, everything is open and pregnant with opportunities. This is the part of the change process that calls for trust, care, honesty, and patience. Letting go is a hard but necessary parts of the generative process. We tend to cling too much that no longer serves us well, on breakdown can provide an essential time for surrender. They're promises inherent in our times of crisis and breakdown, and we can count on knowing that on the far side of breakdown and surrender is an inflowing of gifts. We can expect to experience a time of peaceful happiness with a pervading sense of accomplishment. We learn to be less critical of ourselves and others when the times of mix up and mistakes come along. We may even become wise enough to welcome these difficult times because we can trust that they are, untruth, opportunities for transformation.
— from The Landing (Death) · What are you doing with the rest of your life by paying harden
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- Takeoff Into Chaos
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- Who Is Flying (Self, Nature & Nurture)
- The Mind in the Cockpit
- Expanding Your Range (Growth/Change/Education/Learning/Habit)
- Enjoy the Flight (Living/Balance/Happiness/Passion)
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