People who are primary takers always are dependent on…
Page 122. People who are primary takers always are dependent on someone else for their happiness. Maybe they need praise and respect. Without it, they feel like nothing. Maybe they need gifts and possessions. Without it, they feel poor. Maybe they need physical pleasures galore. Without it they feel lacking.
— from The Heart in the Cockpit (Emotion/Awe/Anxiety/Regret/Empathy) · Don't Mind If I Do: How To Transform Your Life With The Power of Jewish Mindfulness