Whether this was the best thing for them is…
Whether this was the best thing for them is a matter of debate for the ages. What does a parent do for a child and why does he do it. In most cases, the parent is sincerely trying to do what he or she feels is best for the child. The child in later years may not appreciate it, or may feel differently. But the truth is, that the child does not know or remember what the circumstances are on their which those things happened. While there are always exceptions, I do not believe that any parent ever intentionally tries to hurt his child. It's funny and sad how children many times blame the parents for the things the parents have done. This is one of the major riddles of parenting and children.
— from The Heart in the Cockpit (Emotion/Awe/Anxiety/Regret/Empathy)